Some things never change

So yesterday was my birthday, how many phone calls did I get? Two. From who? My husbands grandmother and his auntie. I got tons of posts on my FB. Any from my family? Nope. Am I surprised? Absolutely not. I just dont get why my family thinks its so hard to pick up a phone and say Happy Birthday.
I also found out I am pregnant with baby #3. Did I get any congrats calls? Yeppers. But not from my family. I just dont get it. Nothing is more frustrating than having a family who can display signs of affection. I have never heard my parents tell me that they love me. But I think what is more important and is teaching me a great lesson is that i am showing my boys how say I love you from early on, thats its ok to come and talk to me when your upset. I dont my children to feel like they have to keep things bottled up inside. And I am hoping to teach them as they grow that money doesnt buy love. Well atleast not in my family it wont. I also thought that maybe one day things would change, but i guess i am wrong when you dont know how to or dont want to learn to.